Rules dating second date
"In other words, a second date will always be flat if women go out with a guy again that they're not that excited about, and their only goal is to 'think about it more' or figure out how they feel. Consider choosing something that will allow you to talk and get to know each other. For the most part, men are so used to planning dates that if you say, “Let me plan this date and take you out," you’re already ahead of the curve. Pick a venue, or activity that he will love and this date will really stand out.
Usually, they are sitting together somewhere holding a drink in one hand or a cup of coffee. Often, if the date has been arranged over the internet, that meeting was set up sensibly only to last for a short time--long enough for each person to decide whether or not they want to get to know the other.Everyone should look forward to having fun, rather than finding—at that moment and in that place—the person they will want to marry.Getting to know someone new can be fun, in and of itself, if nothing is at stake. Sometimes the couple will make arrangements to see each other again.But it was Sex and the City that instilled in us the notion that there was something a bit wrong with you if you didn’t want to have sex with somebody after a couple of cocktails and a dinner date.Looming large in my mind to this day is the episode where Carrie starts dating Aidan.
In a lot of cultures, the first or second date can mark the beginning a relationship.